Sunday, September 23, 2007

Better Today

I feel a little better today but still achy in my head. Tired too even though I slept fairly well. Mike came back last night in a pretty good mood. We slept in and then had breakfast together. We talked about yesterday and the weeklong grumpiness. When I said that he could pretty much do whatever next year he asked, "We can't do things together?" Well, yeah, but it makes him snippy to try and coordinate us both. So, it's better that I just follow him like a puppy dog. He said that made it sound bad. No, but this is more his thing than mine. I mean, I'm interested in it but I don't know nearly as much as he does. So, I'm just along for the ride. Eventually we'll get it running smoothly.

I finished shopping for stuff. Got myself a few more small things. Next year I need to remember to bring enough money for a corset. I so want one. But I found little things. And I got enough buttons for everyone at the store and got Mike a few more items. So, it's all good.

I stayed in the room for the rest of the day and slept and just vegged. I needed that. When Mike came back we went to The Cheesecake Factory for dinner and talked about everything. We figured u=out what's been wrong lately. It comes down to miscommunication. There's more to it than that but I won't bore you with the details. It's all ok now again. We don't do too badly most of the time. We communicate pretty well 95% of the time. It's the other 5% that we have to work on. (sigh) But hey, I'll take that.

Tomorrow we plan to get home a little after lunch and just take the day easy. I need to grade stuff for the evening class. So, back to the grind.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

Glad to read you talked it out. I honestly think you two are doing better than most. I'm amazed at some of my friends who are married 10+years and can't communicate. Todd and I screw up every now and then too. It happens. Best to learn from it, not let it get you down, and move on to the smiling times again.
-Andi